Intro to Shibari: What is Japanese Rope Bondage and Why You Should Try It

Have you ever heard of Shibari, also known as Kinbaku? It's a beautiful Japanese art form that involves rope bondage and has gained immense popularity in recent years as a form of BDSM and kink. Before you shrug it off as another kink, there's more to Shibari than just tying up your partner! Shibari is also a form of communication and connection. The ropes have the power to create both physical and emotional connections between partners.

Here are a few reasons why you should consider trying Shibari with your partner:

1. It enhances trust and communication

Shibari is an activity that requires trust and communication between partners. You must communicate effectively to ensure that your partner is comfortable and safe. Through Shibari, partners can build a deeper level of trust and communication that can spill over into other areas of their relationship.

2. It promotes mindfulness and relaxation

 Shibari requires a concentrated focus on the present moment, which can lead to mindfulness and relaxation for both partners. It can create a meditative state and bring a sense of calmness and tranquility to the room.

 

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3. It can improve physical intimacy

Shibari can help partners explore their sexual desires and heighten physical intimacy. The art of tying and being tied can create an intense physical connection and bring new sensations to the bedroom.

4. It encourages creativity

There are countless ways to tie and create patterns in Shibari. It provides an opportunity for partners to be creative and explore their artistic side while also strengthening their bond.

5. It can be a fulfilling hobby

Shibari can be more than a sexual activity – it can also be a fulfilling hobby for both partners. Learning new techniques, experimenting with different types of ropes, and perfecting the art of Shibari can be a unique and satisfying pursuit.

Shibari is a beautiful and intriguing art form that can help couples build trust, communication, and intimacy in their relationship. Whether you are a beginner or an experienced rope enthusiast, Shibari is worth exploring. Just remember to always prioritize safety, communication, and consent.

 

Curious to learn more and take a hands-on approach? Check out shibari expert Sean (@strugglingguy)'s upcoming beginner's workshop this month:


INTRO TO SHIBARI: How to build emotional connection with ropes

Join us to experience how ropes can help bond and strengthen your relationship, whilst adding some spice in the bedroom.  Popular media painted shibari as painful and an extreme perverse art. However the art of shibari consists of techniques, psychology and anatomy. Often communicating through touch is left out. It is a dance and respect between 2 people, using rope acts as a conduit. Letting you enjoy the touch and silent communication. You start learning to read your partner's body language and intent; and how to lead each other. Whether you are solo or partnered up, this inclusive workshop will help with mindfulness, creativity and can even be your next hobby!

This workshop is proudly brought to you by Fifty Shades of Grey. All participants will receive a Fifty Shades Of Grey - Restrain Me Bondage Rope (worth $28.90) and $20 Horny.sg voucher redeemable on the day of the event. 


Timing 1: 15/4/2023 (Saturday), 5 - 7pm
Location: Private location, To be disclosed upon ticket purchase (small and discreet class size)
Tickets:  $88, for individual  $158 for couple (10% off, save $18)

This session is open to all genders

About The Facilitator

Sean, or better known as Struggling Guy, had been practicing shibari actively since 2019, even though his first foray into the art was more than a decade ago. He has since tied almost a hundred people, and conducts private sessions whenever time allows. Sean is inspired by Japanese masters Yagami, Yukimura and Osada style of tying. Sean seeks connection with his models whenever he ties, bringing them comfort, enjoyment and heightened ecstasy. 

IG: @strugglingguy