50 Shades of Pleasure: Beginner's Guide to Common Adult Toys
Did you know that the world’s very first dildo dates back about 28,000 years ago? BBC reported on the discovery of a stone object that resembled the male genitalia in 2005, so if you have always thought that adult toys were a modern-day escapade, think again!
But as much as adult toys are getting more mainstream and openly discussed in today’s society, the sheer number of options available on the market can still be overwhelming for a novice. Coupled with the unfamiliar terms and lack of trustworthy information out there; beginners are sure to feel dizzy from the precariousness of self-pleasure.
If you are looking to explore the world of adult toys and self-pleasure but have no idea where to start, this guide to common sex toys will help you to take the first step in the right direction. Keep reading to find out more!
Adult Toys for Women
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Vibrator
Vibrators are one of the most common adult toys for women and as their name suggests, vibrate at different intensities to bring orgasm to a whole new level. They are designed for external and internal use, depending on their shape and size.
While vibrators are most commonly used to stimulate the clitoris and vulva, they can also be used on other erogenous zones like the nipples and anus.
The LELO DOT is a rechargeable clitoral pinpoint vibrator that uses a unique Infinite Loop Technology to offer constant elliptical motion while the soft and bendable tip provides stimulation with precision. Explore the eight pleasure settings ranging from a murmur to an intense pulse.
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Dildo
A dildo is sometimes confused with a vibrator as they can be shaped quite similar but the biggest difference is that the former does not vibrate, while the latter does.
Dildos are typically shaped like a penis, made to look like one and they come in various shapes and sizes. Some may even feature a slight curve that can help to stimulate the g-spot, a pleasurable area that can help women achieve orgasm. Whilst most people insert a dildo into the vagina, it can also go into the anus and mouth.
Fun Factory’s Limba Flex Bendable Silicone Dildo, like its name suggests, is a customisable dildo that boasts a variety of shapes and angles. It is flexible and soft - perfect for beginners to help you to find out what fits you and feels the best.
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Clit sucker
Clit suckers are designed to imitate oral sex and help women reach the Big O in a way that might very much change their lives! They focus on clit stimulation which is important in orgasms for women, as the majority either feel that clitoral stimulation is necessary for orgasm or sex feels better with it.
Although not all clit suckers are created equal, they usually boast a technology that offers suction to stimulate the clit slowly or intensely for mindblowing orgasms.
Experiment with the Womanizer Starlet 3, which utilises the original Womanizer Pleasure Air Technology but with six different intensities that balance between pulsating and massaging for extraordinary pleasure.
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Dual stimulator
Ever heard of the rabbit? It is one of the most popular dual stimulators to this day but there are also many other options available that can provide the same effect.
Dual stimulators, as you would have already guessed from their name, are adult toys that can expertly target more than one area at once. For instance, some can offer clitoral and g-spot stimulation altogether for a unique self-pleasure experience.
The LELO ENIGMA™ Cruise is just what you need for double the pleasure - it expertly teases the clitoris while simultaneously stimulating the g-spot for exhilarating orgasms.
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Anal toys
It may be daunting for beginners to explore the anal region but you may find yourself enjoying it more than you had anticipated, as long as you are aware of the different anal toy uses and safety precautions to take.
Anal beads can be inserted to stimulate the nerve-rich anal opening while anal plugs either come in vibrating or non-vibrating models. Take note that you should only use anal toys that have a flared base to avoid losing them up your bum. Lube specifically designed for anal stimulation can also help to make the experience more enjoyable.
Adult Toys for Men
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Cock ring
Cock rings go around the scrotum and/or penis to slow blood flow when it is erect. This increases sensation, making erections harder and longer-lasting for more intense orgasms.
While that sounds amazing, it is also important to note that as a rule of thumb, a cock ring should not be kept on for more than 20 to 30 minutes to prevent injury.
Add the Fun Factory NOS Dual Motor Vibrating Cock Ring to your list - beyond pleasuring men, it can also provide clitoral stimulation at the same time for superb partnered sex.
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Penis pump
While a penis pump cannot permanently increase erection size, it certainly is able to bring some fun into partnered sex or even solo masturbation. It works by creating suction around the penis to drive blood flow to the area, increasing one’s sensitivity and boosting performance.
There are also various types of pumps, ranging from hand pumps to battery-powered options. Tip: put on a cock ring after pumping to maintain the size.
Try The Horny Company’s Penis Pump LED, an automatic pleasure tool with an anti-slip grip, powerful suction and soft silicon for increased size and satisfaction.
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Prostate toys
The p-spot, referring to the prostate and located in the anus, is as pleasurable for men as the g-spot is for women. Hence, prostate toys like prostate massagers can help men achieve stronger and harder orgasms.
These prostate massagers have smooth, rounded tips for easy insertion into the anus and are generally curved so that they press directly against the prostate. Some of them vibrate for added stimulation.
The Vector+ by We-Vibe stimulates both the prostate and perineum, and has an adjustable neck for better prostate contact to allow customisation according to your liking. Operate it using a remote or app for hands-free play so you can focus on climaxing.
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Vibrator
Yes, women enjoy using vibrators but so do some men! The vibrations can stimulate areas like the penis head and shaft, scrotum and nipples to build anticipation for a more pleasurable climax.
Consider using the Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo, a couples vibrator that is worn by him, but enjoyed by both. The tailored controls allow both parties to receive the right amount of stimulation, taking you and your partner to orgasmic highs you have never felt before.
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Onahole
Onahole is the Japanese reference to a masturbation hole that is designed to slip over the penis. It replicates the stroking sensation of penetrating a partner without the need for a physical body.
Designs of male masturbators can range from discrete tube-like ones to more realistic-looking vulvas and egg-shaped devices.
If you are unsure about which one to go for, the Tenga Air Tech Twist Ripple is a reusable and affordable option to get you started. Adjust the intensity with its compression system to create a one-of-a-kind experience that will keep you coming back for more.
Shop adult toys for beginners online in Singapore
Get your hands on the adult toys mentioned above at horny.sg, an online store in Singapore for all things pleasurable. Explore a range of the newest sex toys while you are at it too!
Apart from solo sex toys, we also carry a range of adult toys that long-distance couples can experiment with for some fun even while away from home.
Distance is no longer an issue with app-controlled toys, like the Lovense Lush 3 which comes with a fully customisable app for unlimited vibration patterns and sound-activated vibrations so you can sync it to your partner’s favourite music for endless possibilities.