Lube 101: How It Makes Or Breaks Sex & Which to Use
When you think of sex essentials, condoms and adult toys are what commonly comes to mind first and using a lubricant often takes the backseat no thanks to the belief that lube is a last resort. But truth be told, lube is important and can help to enhance your sexual experience tenfold.
Here is everything you need to know about the importance of lube and how you can choose a suitable one.
Why is using lube so important?
- Reduces friction for more comfortable sex
Vaginal dryness can occur due to reduced estrogen levels and certain medical conditions. Even though it is not something to be embarrassed about, dryness can increase friction and the risk of injury. Lube comes in handy to keep things wet and slippery to prevent chafing and get things moving in the right direction.
- Helps to make solo play safer and more pleasurable
Using lube with your adult toy is always a good idea especially if you are a beginner. For instance, using a dildo for the first time might seem daunting but lube can make the process smoother and help you to experience new sensations that will bring you to a climax more quickly.
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- Increases your protection against STIs and unwanted pregnancy
Other than offering more pleasurable and comfortable experiences, using lube can also increase your protection against STIs and unwanted pregnancy. Reducing friction is a key factor in preventing tears in a condom.
- Makes anal play more enjoyable
Venturing into anal play for the first time can be intimidating but there is no need to let fear stop you! Since the anus is not self-lubricating, using sufficient lube is crucial and when paired with the right adult toy, like a butt plug with a flared base, anal play can be truly enjoyable for many.
How do I choose the best lube?
- Water-based vs silicone-based lube
Water-based lube is one of the most common and popular options as it washes off easily and will not stain the sheets, is safe to use with condoms and is compatible with most, if not all adult toys. But that is not to say silicone-based lubricants are not great - their thicker consistency is perfect for shower or anal sex.
- Introduce flavoured lube during oral sex
To make oral sex more palatable, introduce flavoured lube into the mix! System Jo’s range of lube ranging from strawberry to mojito flavoured is FDA-approved, giving you greater peace of mind and enhanced sexual experiences.
- Avoid desensitising lube during anal play
Numbing and desensitising lube might sound like a feasible solution when it comes to anal play but it is not always the best or safest option. Such lubricants may cause you to not notice tears, putting you at risk of long-term damage and infections.
- Understand what glycerin does
Glycerin is a sugar alcohol and a humectant which seals in moisture and hence, is a common ingredient found in lubricants. As glycerin is sweet-tasting, it has gotten a bad reputation for being the cause of vaginal yeast infections. On the contrary, glycerin can only be converted into sugar when ingested and not when it is applied to the body in the form of lube.
But if you prefer playing it safe, you can always choose a glycerin-free lubricant like the Pjur Med Sensitive Glide which is also free of parabens and preservatives. The System Jo Classic Hybrid is also parabens and glycerin-free while boasting a unique hybrid fusion of silicone and water for a thin yet silky glide.
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